Fear...

  Well I was talking to someone that told me something, of course no names, but she got me to thinking. Fear is a normal word when talking about scary things like werewolves, vampires, zombies, mummies, Freddy Kruger, the chainsaw guy, taxes, IRS etc... I'm going to safely say that you all get my point. So back to what I was about to say, when the word fear comes up in conversation about a persons relationship, it is not a very good word it actually turns into a curse. When a person starts to fear the person they are with then, sorry to say, your relationship maybe doomed. I am sure there could be a few ways to save it but in my opinion and experience it doesn't work out. You see once you start seeing your significant other as someone to fear then how can you trust them again? I figure fear is a way that your sub-conscience tells you or shall I say warns you of the things that may come. Just think about it, you have seen those movies where the woman makes excuses for the man on why she fears him. Well doesn't she still keep getting beat after the fear hits, of course she doe. But its not only that its also words people say that words don't hurt well I am here to tell you sometimes words are worse then anything else. Because words make a person start to believe what is being said about them for example no one has the right to call you worthless, a loser, stupid, make you feel bad or anything negative think about it this way. GOD wouldn't have put you here if he knew you were not meant to be, GOD makes no mistake you are here because you have a reason to exist! So for the conclusion I would like to say that you need to make your own decisions and you need to think about what is right for you and yours. May you all be safe and do not fear the one you love. God loves you no matter what anyone else tells you, you are worth it after all GOD put you here so live your way and happy..... Blessed to you all....