Happy Anniversary

          Today is a special day, my wonderful parents are celebrating their 37th wedding Anniversary. Some of you may think this is a long time, some of you may think not, I am just happy they are still together and here in my life. I am not saying they don't have their troubles which they do but it goes away faster then when it arrives. I think that it helps that my parents tend to talk about everything, when my Father comes home from work even if its after dinner and we all have eaten my Mother still sits with him at the table and they talk about his day or whatever is on his mind. I think this is sweet and every couple no matter how busy should do this. On my Dad's days off they have what I call 'Hunny Time' heck all I know is that sometimes they come home with groceries or they come back after picking up my boy from school, all I know is that's their alone time to talk or just spend time together. My parents actually have two Anniversaries and the other is when they married by church on March of 1999, I was lucky enough to be my Mother's maid-of-honor and my little brother was my Father's's best man. I remember this day, it was fun and the look on my Father's face when he turned to see people in the church pues, whom he did not expect,needless to say he was surprised he had made it clear that no one was to know but the imidiate family. Well unbeknownst to my Dad, my grandmother was so excited that she told the EXTENDED family! So needless to say we had the best reception party ever, well more like BBQ reception at our house, my Uncle and Aunt and various other relatives had gone to the trouble to have food and everything ready, and since I was in on it I expertly cleaned the house intermittently through the week between classes and work and papers due. Either way the day was priceless, the bummer was that we did not record the party but we do have remembrance of the wedding so my Dad can not deny it. haha I think that another thing that keeps my parents so happy and still together LAUGHTER my Dad jokes with my Mom and we all joke around together, not that we are not also serious but we know when to be and when not to be. I kinda sound a but Shakespearean there don't I? Well to end my ranting or bragging whatever I am to say this, if you are meant to be with the one your with that's great make it work, if you are married or are to be married then remember that life brings you ups and downs, you have to work it through and remember always keep laughing and communicate. Peace and God Bless you all....
     HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MOM AND DAD!!!!!

Its Valentine's Day

           I don't celebrate Valentine's day like every-other woman in the world, I celebrate it with my family, my parents and my boy. What we do is make a big Peruvian Style meal, sit together and be happy we have one another. I have never really known or understood why couples make such a big deal about it. Even as a child seeing my parents never really was a big deal my parents show their affection all year around not just one day so the Valentine's big shindig is just lost on me. Even when I was dating it never was a big deal, I guess it just another day.
              The one thing about Valentine's Day I do know is that it is my Uncle Tommy Valentin's Birthday and my friend Sandee as well I hope they both have a great birthdays and have loads of fun with family and or friends. I hope to the rest of the world you don't forget the real meaning behind this holiday because of Saint Valentine the patron Saint of LOVE. Love of family, friends, and each other. May you all remember that God is part of each and every one of us and Love is part of him.

Can't Sleep...

I can't sleep tonight I am just not tired, I have been sitting here trying to write more of my book thinking. I want this next book to be a good seller, I know I am not James Patterson but I sure would like his input sometimes. I am determine to make this next book a lot longer then the first. You would think that writing would be simple but it isn't I have always liked writing and as for imagination I have a lot of it. haha I just have so many ideas and getting them down in order is the problem well no not problem but maybe the word is confusing. I just have so many ideas, believe me I think if I can separate and catalog all my thought I can have a whole library of book that I can write. Maybe I will end up doing that maybe this is my calling who know I guess God is the only one who can tell....

Thinking yet Again...

I talked to my grandmother today and she started telling me about my brother and it had me start to think. I don't talk to my brother and sometimes its sad when I see siblings getting along going out and saying that their best friend is that brother or sister. My brother and I can't even be in the same place alone for too long we end up arguing or just straight out fighting. I'm not saying that I am perfect because I am not what I am saying is that it is too bad that my brother and I don't get along like we used to. I can also say that I have a few cousins I also don't get along with like before, they just all took a different route of life then I did. I have to admit that I refuse to change or dumb it down just to be able to get along with them again. I don't know if this is right or wrong but I just needed to let it out, since there really isn't anyone I can express myself to about this. I don't expect any answers I just want to let this go into the wind and see what life brings me. May all be good with you....