Things people say..........

     I am sure someone out there has a family members that make you feel kinda bad. Yeah I have a couple, the funny thing is that they don't see it, they think they are helping. But why don't they see that when they are saying things about oh weight, height, looks, life, knowledge, pretty much everything it's not being helpful but hurtful. I had  someone whom will remain nameless tell me some disturbing things, for example I have been raising my nephew I know I am not his biological mother and he knows this as well, yet he respects me and sees me as a mother well 'some' say that I have no idea what it is to raise a child of my own. Wait I have been raising my nephew so uhh YES I do know, but of course I will not talk back I just stay quiet. Then there was another situation as you may know I ran a family business for a while, well I was told also a little bit ago that I knew nothing about running a business nor being responsible enough to know what it was. WOW that was a low blow if you ask me, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions and ideas. I have been back handed and insulted by my own family members for so long I think I may have grown a thicker skin for it but that doesn't mean it doesn't still bother me. I figure it maybe because they are so used to me being the child that they don't see me as an adult and as a responsible person. I was and am very excited that I had gotten published yet I tell (un named source) about it and that I am  working towards becoming an author. What do I get is that's a waste of time, your too old to be changing career goals, or the uhh ok I guess.  I don't expect support from anyone anymore my parents and my boy (nephew) are the only ones that mater and to be frank they always give me all the support I need. Sometimes its sad to see that others don't care, but don't get me wrong I also have support from some family members, the ones I am talking about are closer the ones who you don't expect to be negative. I hope you all know what I mean. Well I am done with my rant so I shall be off. Until the next time.....