Just a thought to help...

I was watching a lifetime movie that truly made me mad. The story was about a woman that fell madly in love with a man, it started out like any beautiful romance. He was caring, sweet, kind, everything you can imagine a gentleman to be. Then months go by and the guy becomes jealous, overbearing, and worse of all violent. The girl gets hit, punched, slapped for any reason while the guy idles by with puppy dog eyes begging for her forgiveness. Well as you can imagine it went on until the girl wised up and listen to the people that truly DID care about her. What makes me mad is that some women truly love so much that they become blind to the obvious. I, as a self proclaimed, independent, smart, strong woman has also fallen prey to blind love. I know that sometimes it's hard to admit when you're wrong and you make a mistake about someone but it's even harder when it is someone you care for. What I saw in this movie, when the girl blamed herself for being hit made me think of all the women out there that actually think like that. Just because we're women and men think they are superior doesn't mean they have a right to lay a hand on us. Maybe in the olden times it was okay but not today. So to all the women out there defend yourself if you can't physically then find a way!! Here's another piece of advice if you have a best friend or anyone who tells you they see something not right in your relationship,listen take into consideration what they are telling you. Their concern may be on the right track. Well that is all for today….